How We Use AI to Build Stronger Relationships (and Find Better Realtor Partners) in Naples, Fort Myers, Estero, Bonita Springs & Port Charlotte
There’s a lot of noise online about AI “ruining connection.”
In real life—especially in real estate and mortgages across Naples, Fort Myers, Estero, Bonita Springs, and Port Charlotte—we’ve seen the opposite. Used correctly, AI doesn’t replace relationships. It removes the friction that makes relationships harder: wasted time, bad-fit partnerships, messy follow-up, and being distracted during conversations.
Here are two AI systems we built that changed the way we connect with both clients and referral partners.
1)
The “Swipe Right GPT”: A Smarter Way to Find Realtor Partners
If you’ve ever tried to build referral relationships the traditional way, you know the problem:
You can meet a lot of agents…
…but most of them are not the right fit.
So we built a tool we call Swipe Right GPT—because the goal is simple:
Quickly identify the agents we’d actually want to build a relationship with.
- How it works (high level)
- You enter any city or county (think: Collier County, Lee County, Charlotte County, etc.)
- It pulls a list of agents that match specific criteria
- Then it runs a deep social media review
- Posts
- Captions
- Hashtags
- Videos
- Topics and tone
The end result is a short, curated list of agents who:
- meet our business standards, and
- have real overlap with us as humans.
Why this matters in SWFL
In markets like Naples and Bonita Springs, relationships move fast—but only when the partnership is real.
If you share common ground (interests, values, communication style), you don’t need weeks of awkward small talk. You start the relationship with instant rapport.
2)
AI Can Increase Connection—Because It Makes You More Present
One of the most overlooked problems in our industry is this:
When you’re in a meeting, you’re not fully there.
You’re taking notes.
You’re trying to remember details.
You’re half-present because your brain is managing the follow-up.
When the GPT handles the documentation and organization, we can be:
- fully focused on the client
- fully tuned in to emotion and decision-making
- fully engaged in the relationship
That’s not “less connection.”
That’s more connection.
3)
The “Family Office GPT”:
A Financial Concierge for Better Advice
Great loan officers aren’t great because they have a rate sheet.
They’re great because they can give great advice—the kind of advice clients remember and referral partners trust.
So we built another tool: Family Office GPT.
Think of it like a “financial concierge” that understands:
- mortgages
- real estate strategy
- insurance
- taxes
- investing basics
- trade-offs and planning
You give it the client’s situation, and it helps elevate the quality of the conversation—so the client walks away thinking:
“Wow. Nobody else explained it like that.”
That matters in every market, but especially in competitive areas like Naples, Fort Myers, and Estero, where clients talk to multiple lenders and agents before making a decision.
Why This Helps Realtors Too (Naples to Port Charlotte)
For realtors, the same idea applies:
- Stop trying to partner with everyone
- Start partnering with people you actually match with
- Use AI to filter faster, so you spend time where it counts
AI doesn’t replace the relationship.
It protects the relationship by helping you:
- choose better-fit partners
- show up more prepared
- stay more present
- follow up more consistently
Want the system?
If you’re a realtor in Naples, Fort Myers, Estero, Bonita Springs, or Port Charlotte and you want to see how we use this to build partnerships and convert more deals, drop the word CONNECT and I’ll break down the exact workflow (including what criteria we screen for and what we look for in the social media scrub).